I always find it interesting when visiting somewhere amazing how people seem to be more focused on getting the best photo of the place, rather than just enjoying the experience. It’s as if they don’t get that right photo, then their friends might not actually believe they went there and it wasn’t actually that great.
I find that whenever I’m at a gig over half the people there are basically watching the gig through their phone. Why not just watch the DVD of the concert at home? It seems people want to record and document every moment of their lives.

Life Through A Lens
Now that we have Facebook, is this an extra way to seek the attention and approval of our friends, and have someone to share day-to-day life with?
I know it’s really corny but I always liked the line in the movie Shall We Dance about how people need a witness to their lives, which is usually in the form of a husband or wife –
“We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet … I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things … all of it, all of the time, every day. You’re saying ‘Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness’.”
Maybe Facebook has replaced the need to get married? Now you can document everything about your life and get the validation that someone out there knows what has happened to you. I mean, what’s the point of going somewhere amazing if you can’t then brag about it to your friends – or better yet, have random people you went to school with comment on your photos?
Queen Latifah summed it up nicely, when she said:
“When I meet someone I want to enjoy the moment of connecting with them. If they’re scrambling to get a picture to post on twitter, they’re losing the memory by missing the moment. Real life and social networking are not the same. I’m in a hotel room right now looking out at Central Park. The people out there are living life, playing soccer. Do I want to kick the ball? Or take a picture of it? I want to kick it.”
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Bethany Hoskin
Bethany Hoskin is a Client Services Manager at Social Media Library, taking care of all our lovely subscribers. She has a Communications degree and previously worked in PR for St John Ambulance, Zing and Republic PR. Whilst she enjoys knowing what’s happening in social media, she may be caught watching the new Sex and the City trailer, or the latest episode of Glee…






